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HOW I BLEED by Kathi Valeii

(Trigger warning: This poem is the voice of a reproductive justice and birth advocate as she  expresses trauma that results from the many ways women work against each other in our culture, such as by perpetuating negative birthing experiences, bullying one another, etc.)  I wrote this piece during some painful reflection about female relationships in my life… Relationships that have eluded me my entire life. Relationships that I'm just beginning to dip my toes into in my middle-age.  W omen are mysterious and beautiful and powerful and scary. Our culture has taught us to distance ourselves from one another, taught us to mis-trust one another. What a de-volution from the times when we bled together. How I Bleed I have been afraid of you all of my life. All of you. Even You, the one with a goddess heart, big and deep and gushing with life. The one who says, “all of the women I love know how to bleed with me.” Especially you. You s...